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Ashleigh Lamberti

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January 7, 2020
Codependency Therapy
Ashleigh Lamberti
Navigating Narcissism and Grandiosity

A narcissistic personality is often “balanced” by a codependent personality. As mentioned above, narcissists are typically men. These men often marry codependent women. (I discuss codependency here on my blog.) Narcissists expect their partners to…

Navigating Narcissism and Grandiosity
Ashleigh Lamberti
February 23, 2026
Spiritual Counseling

Understanding the Connection Between Self-Esteem and Infidelity

Ashleigh Lamberti
February 23, 2026
Spiritual Counseling
Understanding the Connection Between Self-Esteem and Infidelity

Infidelity is often one of the most difficult challenges a relationship can face. While some couples choose to separate after such a damaging event, others work toward healing and staying together.

Ashleigh Lamberti
February 9, 2026
Couples Therapy

What Porn Addiction Treatment Really Looks Like

Ashleigh Lamberti
February 9, 2026
Couples Therapy
What Porn Addiction Treatment Really Looks Like

Pornography can be a private part of life for many people, but for some, it becomes something more than just a casual experience.

Ashleigh Lamberti
January 26, 2026
Couples Therapy

Six Ways to Be a Better Partner

Ashleigh Lamberti
January 26, 2026
Couples Therapy
Six Ways to Be a Better Partner

Relationships don’t come with instruction manuals. Whether you’re in a brand-new relationship or have been with your partner for years, staying connected and supportive takes intentional effort.

Ashleigh Lamberti
January 12, 2026
Couples Therapy

How to Piece Together Your Life When Recovering from Infidelity Trauma

Ashleigh Lamberti
January 12, 2026
Couples Therapy
How to Piece Together Your Life When Recovering from Infidelity Trauma

Infidelity shatters more than just trust; it disrupts your sense of safety, identity, and the story you believed you were living. Whether the betrayal happened in a long-term partnership or a newer relationship, the emotional impact can feel disorienting and destabilizing.

Ashleigh Lamberti
December 22, 2025
Couples Therapy

ADHD and the Heart: Understanding Rejection Sensitivity and Shame

Ashleigh Lamberti
December 22, 2025
Couples Therapy
ADHD and the Heart: Understanding Rejection Sensitivity and Shame

When most people think of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, or ADHD, they think of distractibility, restlessness or trouble focusing. But for many with ADHD, the emotional side of the condition is just as difficult, if not more challenging.

Ashleigh Lamberti
December 8, 2025
Couples Therapy

Understanding Adult ADHD Symptoms to Improve Your Relationship Dynamics

Ashleigh Lamberti
December 8, 2025
Couples Therapy
Understanding Adult ADHD Symptoms to Improve Your Relationship Dynamics

Attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is often associated with children, but millions of adults live with it every day, many without ever receiving a diagnosis. Adult ADHD can influence communication styles, emotional regulation and the patterns people bring into relationships.

Ashleigh Lamberti
November 24, 2025
Couples Therapy

From Shame to Empowerment: Relational Healing in Practice

Ashleigh Lamberti
November 24, 2025
Couples Therapy
From Shame to Empowerment: Relational Healing in Practice

Shame is one of the most powerful yet hidden emotions that shape our lives. It whispers that we are unworthy, unlovable or broken, which can leave us feeling trapped in cycles of silence and self-criticism.

Ashleigh Lamberti
November 10, 2025
Couples Therapy

Breaking Generational Patterns with Relational Life Therapy

Ashleigh Lamberti
November 10, 2025
Couples Therapy
Breaking Generational Patterns with Relational Life Therapy

Many of us carry emotional habits and relational dynamics that were passed down from our families, often without even realizing it. These inherited patterns can shape how we communicate, connect and handle conflict in our adult relationships.

Ashleigh Lamberti
October 27, 2025
Couples Therapy

The Role of Self-Esteem in Interpersonal Dynamics

Ashleigh Lamberti
October 27, 2025
Couples Therapy
The Role of Self-Esteem in Interpersonal Dynamics

Self-esteem is the way we see and value ourselves, and it plays a huge role in how we interact with others. It influences the way we communicate, set boundaries and handle conflict.

Ashleigh Lamberti
October 13, 2025
Couples Therapy

Gaslighting & Narcissism: Red Flags, Examples, and Recovery Tips

Ashleigh Lamberti
October 13, 2025
Couples Therapy
Gaslighting & Narcissism: Red Flags, Examples, and Recovery Tips

When people talk about toxic relationships, gaslighting and narcissism often come up. These aren’t just buzzwords. They describe behaviors that can cause deep, long-lasting harm.

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Ashleigh Lamberti, LMFT # 99816

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     Carpinteria, CA 93013

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