Few things are as contentious in American life as politics. Therapists and relationship researchers have found that the politics of the last four to five years have made this even more so. Sometimes couples are as deeply divided as the nation.

For better or worse, money management can be a tricky topic to navigate as a couple. Both of you bring your own financial habits and expectations with you. Chances are good that these are not identical!

There’s been a great deal of talk about isolation (and social distancing) in the last year because of the coronavirus pandemic. And many people have experienced loneliness as a result of this isolation.

How do you and your partner handle arguments? Have you been able to reach a place of civility and mutual understanding when you have big disagreements?